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You can’t buy happiness

6 de junho de 2015

Happiness-Day-Wallpapers-8Folha online published a report commenting on research in the scientific journal “PNAS” about the main factors of happiness and unhappiness in people’s lives. Interviews were made with more than 450 thousand Americans.
It was discovered, for example, that lonely people feel very unhappy, even in comparison with those who suffer from a chronic health problem. Having children, on the other hand, brings happiness. In regard to income, to be happy, it is important not to be rich, but to not be poor.
The most important factor of well-being, however, is to be religious.
But the interesting part of this research is that it coincides with the ideas of realist philosophy. In this sense, the philosopher Ricardo Yepes Stork comments the following: “The good life was for the Classics the one that contains and possess the most appreciate goods: the family and the sons at home, a moderate wealth, the good friends, good luck and fortune that pushes aside the misfortune, the fame, the honour, the good health, and, above all, a nourish life in the contemplation of the truth and in the practice of the virtue”. (cfr. Fundaments of Anthropology) Brazilian Institute of Philosophy and Science “Ramon Llull” Publisher).
Another fact that stands out is faith as the only factor that wins the money in pursuit of happiness. But why? In my view, precisely because of that faith, if consistent and vitalized, provides above all a life nourished in the contemplation of truth and the practice of virtue, not counting our need for eternity. According to the teaching of the same Yepes, “Man wants to leave time behind and go ahead of it, to a region where love and happiness are never cut off, where he will be safe from any eventuality and be made definitive. On the other hand, the intended to a loved one makes us see that a human being is not sufficient to accumulate the potentially infinite capacities of man. God is the supreme happiness of man, because it is he that fully fills the desire that marks all men’s life. God is the friend who never fails Only with God the destiny of man with him is guaranteed, because any other is fallible, insecure, and mortal.
We see, then, that, to be happy, It is not needed a comfortable life in richness, but a heart in love (S. Josemaria Escriva, Sulco, n 795).


14 de fevereiro de 2015
02Much is said about the escalation of violence in the world.   In relation of its causes, in the case of Brazil, the generally accepted opinion is that would be basically two: impunity and the existence of large sectors of poverty in the country, fertile soil for the growth of crime  
Regarding impunity, without doubt, the three state powers have their share of responsibility: the dubious behavior, several times by the judiciary in the punishment of offenders; the criminal legal entanglement and criminal procedure, where you can always find a loophole; the unpreparedness of the police, the lack of political will of governments to address the problem and solve it once and for all are important factors for the normalization of violence in the country.  
However, we note that all the above mentioned causes are “extrinsic to man” and in conformity with law and politics.  They are measures which prevent or repress violence, but which do not act on the origin of the wickedness.  
Poverty and socioeconomic marginalization also cannot be diagnosed as a reason for excessive violence, seeing as the problem affects all socioeconomic classes without distinction.   In this respect, we cite as an example the case of Suzane von Richthofen, a beautiful girl from São Paulo´s upper middle class who studied law in one of the country´s best colleges and who murdered her parents in cold blood and in the cruelest of ways, helped by her boyfriend and her brother; the Pitt boys, etc.   Besides this, we recall that it became an international drama.   Now and then we come across in the news the story of a child murderer, a serial killer who announces his action on YouTube, and, after killing innocent people, commits suicide, etc.  
Thus, in my view, the root of the current normalization of violence is not to be found in the bad distribution of income or in the failure of the state apparatus to combat it.  It can be seen as an evil of modern society, one being suffered at the global level.   The normalization of violence is the externalization, the symptom of a civilization that is wasting away.  
The modern person finds him or herself submersed in nihilism which, in Nietzsche´s understanding, “is not just the contemplation of the uselessness of everything, not just the conviction that everything deserve to fall into ruin; putting hands to work, let them help lead things to ruin… That is, if you will, illogic; but nihilism does not believe in the obligation to be logical.. It is the state of strong spirits and wills, and they are not able to cope with the “no” of personal judgment – the “no” of action is then part of their nature.   The annihilation with the hand accompanies the annihilation done with personal judgment.”  
The contemporary cultural amalgam has as its main victim the young, where the scant moral and ethical education received in the family and in community life, allied with the fact that they are more susceptible to absorbing prevailing values, has as a consequence the appearance of a “juventude transviada” (youth lead astray), as sociologists call them.  
The poorest communities also end up suffering more intensely: “And what results from that right to the multiplication of needs? For the rich, the spiritual isolation and suicide, for the poor, the envy and the murder, while those rights were conceded but still don´t show the ways to satisfy the needs.”   (Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov).   We remind here the tragic case of the bus 174, in Rio de Janeiro in 2000, which was held in the neighborhood of the Botanical Garden for nearly five hours, at the point of a gun, by Sandro do Nascimento Barbosa, a victim of the old Slaughter of Candelaria.   This young man, thirst to be socially recognized and saying he wanted to be famous – something envied and desired by so many people – chose the path of crime to achieve this dream.  
So it seems to me mistaken the solution proposed by some of the poor birth control as a way to contain the violence, because it would be the same as social castration, turning those who are victims of violence in guilty.  
Thus, beyond the necessary and indispensable reforms in our state apparatus of repression violence, a cultural change is made essential, so to provide a solid human formation to all members of society, as well as the proposal of “new values “for the peaceful coexistence of man in society, especially the respect that every person should have for others and for justice, otherwise the society of men devour itself.  
However, respect for mankind and justice as key pivots for life in society are not a new idea.   In the myth of Protagoras, Plato shows us which is the only base on which human society can be maintained.   The myth tells us that it is not enough to have refined technical skills and fire, that is, the powerful energy freed up by technique and labour, if humanity does not retrieve the other divine gifts ( given by Zeus), i.e. respecting others and abiding by the laws, two qualities that the king of Olympus wished bestowed upon all without exception.  
Moreover, in the passage about Crito, Plato explains very clearly the second principle, according to which one should never cause injury or injustice to men, even when we ourselves are victims of evil or unfair actions.   We must never commit evil actions and we should not repay evil actions with vengeance.  
However, often justice is not enough to assuage tempers and reestablish peace.   In this sense, Cicero used to say: “summum ius, summa injuria”.   [Cícero, De Officiis 1.10.33].  Sometimes, extreme justice is the greater injustice of all.  Therefore, it is necessary to drastically change love, the love of giving, the desire of wanting the best for others for themselves, and to act in a selfless way to find a solution to the problem of violence.   About charity as a foundation for society, Pope Benedict XVI, in his encyclical “Deus Caritas Est” (God is Love) recounts an interesting episode that took place in the early times of Christianity: “the emperor Juliano The Apostate († 363) deserves to be quoted.because he demonstrated, once more, just how essential it was, for the church in those early centuries of its existence, to rely on charity that was organized and practised.   Six year old, Julian witnessed the assassination of his father, his brother and other family members by the guards of the imperial palace; he attributed this brutality to – rightly or wrongly – the Emperor Constantius, who posed as a great christian.  As a result, the Christian faith was discredited in his eyes once and for all.   Upon becoming emperor, Julian decided to restore paganism, the ancient Roman religion, but at the same time reforming it to make it the driving force of the empire.   For this, he was amply inspired by Christianity.   He established a hierarchy of metropolitans and priests.   They had to promte love of God and any people.   In one of his letters, [16] wrote that the sole aspect of Christianity which had impressed him was the Church’s charitable activity.  For that reason, he considered essential for his new pagan religion that, alongside the Church’s charity system, an equivalent activity of its own.   The “Galileans” – he said – had just won its popularity.   Had to imitate them, if not overcome them.   In that way, the Emperor confirmed that charity was a decisive feature of the Christian community, the Church.  
So it is not the technique that will restore the earthly paradise.   Faith in technical progress, in the words of Theodore W. Adorno, led to progress from the sling to the atom bomb.   If humanity does not recover the other divine gifts – from Zeus – that is, respect and justice, and not based on love, is doomed to self-destruction, as it was on the verge of happening in our recent past with the second World War II and the Cold War.  

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